There is a notion called,’The killing of the death’…..
If you can’t rid yourself of a memory, or, more likely, someone who has torn your heart out, the idea is, you take for example, a photograph, and burn it. While it burns you recall everything that’s tearing you apart and when the burning is done that memory goes with it…..forever.
It does work, I’ve done it.
Letting go is hard, very hard, and whoever says it isn’t is the very dickhead that causes the shit in the first place. We all go through crap at times, it is a part of life that is unavoidable, and, ironically, lets you know when you’re having good times.There has to be both. Either continuously would be tedious on the one hand and fucking dull on the other.
My point is…….you may be standing on the quayside not wanting the ship to leave port, for whatever reason, but once it’s left the quay and out of sight, you can and should move on, there is always the opportunity to let go…always choose to let go my friend.
Choose yer words wisely,
Abe & the Elum